It’s time to start worrying when you find yourself beginning to tell those little “white lies” or omissions to your husband about who & what you’re doing on the side.
And be aware that eventually he might decide HE wants some fun on the side too. Are you prepared to handle that possibility just as smoothly as he is handling this so far with you?
It’s not set in stone that he migth want to play around too, but I’m saying that if he starts feeling that way then he’s got a fair amount of justification for it already if you know what I mean.
Of course it wouldn’t be entirely 100% fair for him to force you to accept his affairs after he already walked you into the affairs habit without his half of the games being mentioned as a possibility. But I’m saying the whole thing becomes a bunch of grey areas once one spouse has already played around with permission from the other. …